We have all heard of the phrase “personality matters the most” when it comes to making a first impression. However, some men confuse “good personality” with “good looks”. Personality on the other hand is who you are, inside and out. However expensive clothes and cheesy pick-up lines are perceived as ideal personalities. You won’t be able to make a nice first impression on your crush.
Well, worry not, because we are here to help you out! Here are the top 5 things that a woman notices.
1. The Drink In Your Hand
Believe it or not, she is always noticing the drink you have. Never drink too fast to impress her and it will take her no time to notice that you are trying too hard on her. Instead, just relax and be yourself. Also, drink only as much as you can handle.
2. Your Body Language
If you drink more than you can handle, it will be visible in your body language. You can turn into a sloppy, nervous wreck after drinking. That’s exactly what we don’t want. Make sure you have a relaxed yet firm grip on your body language as drinking too much seems distracting and clumsy to her.
3. How Well Dressed You Are
Always make sure your beard and hair are groomed well. Take care of little things like dirty shoes, shabby nails, shoes, etc. In terms of fashion, make sure that your clothes are well ironed and color-coordinated.
Be it a casual T or a simple black shirt, your style should reflect who you are. You don’t need to go out of your comfort zone, just don’t wear dirty or shabby clothes.
4. Making Eye Contact
Trust us, nothing can be as attractive as confidence. Try talking with her while looking around as making eye contact while talking is the most cliché flirting technique. Also, avoid wearing sunglasses and go for simple glass frames instead.
5. The Actual Conversation
Lastly, the most important part of making a good first impression is the actual conversation. You will be shocked how far a polite “hi” can take you. Keep things casual and as light-hearted as possible. If your conversations aren’t your strong pursuit, suggest playing a fun party game. You won’t have to talk much but you can still make a good impression.